Category: Self-Management

A sliver of space.

I love that phrase and cannot take credit for it. It is a gift from my colleague Alli Polin. Do you make sure you have your slivers of space? Alli asked in a tweet a while back. I knew exactly what she was talking about. (more…)

Hi. How are you? A standard greeting. We utter it daily, many times over. A great social invitation, right? Well, it ought to be. Reality is a lot more complex.

How are you? This simple question creates instant social dilemmas.  (more…)

I spent four days in Chicago last month, hosting a leadership program. I enjoyed my group immensely. The energy was good.

That’s my language of choice. I’m a personal-energy-guy. I love “good energy.”  (more…)

I want to yell at the dental assistant. Mariana is taking an x-ray. My mouth is stretched open wide, a metal contraption wedged into the space between upper and lower teeth, an x-ray chip pressing into my gums.

Just relax, Mariana says. (more…)

Cool when science catches up with what we already know.

That occurs to me as I flip through the latest article by Sue Shellenbarger, my favorite Wall Street Journal columnist (It’s Not Copying, It’s Connecting, We’re Networking. WSJ 9/21/16).  (more…)

Hustle and hubbub at the DMEXCO tradeshow in Cologne. As I enter a large tent a little off to the side, the noise subsides. A panel of women is talking about success. I slink onto a barstool and listen.

I like to make decisions, a panelist says.  (more…)

Banter in my Facebook tribe last Friday (yes, I’m on Facebook). A quote by Joseph Chilton Pearce, author of the revered book Magical Child, shared by friend and colleague Ann Sheybani, Book Coach Extraordinaire.

To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.  (more…)

You know you’re smart. On any given day you can figure it out. But today, just for today, your brain is going on strike. Shut down.

Can’t process another piece of information. Can’t look at one more spread-sheet. Can’t listen to one more scintillating idea.

Let’s simply call it mental fatigue. (more…)

Two political conventions rolled over us in the US. Public discourse in the aftermath got more heated than it had already been. Even if you tried to avoid the coverage, chances are you watched. And, pardon the gun metaphor – you got triggered.

There’s having a reaction. There’s being triggered. (more…)

My friend Marc Rubin and I tease our colleague Tina Governo.

You seem to be working harder than ever, we chuckle during a phone chat with her.

Tina just switched from a demanding full-time corporate leadership role to a part-time position. She has been on the road more than ever, it seems. Yeah – I chuckle and empathize. When I look at the pace of my life over the last 6 weeks I think to myself come on, really? Like, REALLY? (more…)